Jus' Sayin' https://www.facebook.com/MagnetForTheMildlyDeranged/photos/a.168775193329933.1073741832.160383234169129/322738704600247/?type=1&theater
Here is a big long article for you: #NSearcher
http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/religion/re0933.htm
Nice long interview here:
http://youtu.be/7sDj--QEbys
Monday, November 3, 2014
Saturday, October 18, 2014
I Am Narcissist - Hear Me Roar
I Am Narcissist - Hear Me Roar
Governor Kitzhaber Steps Down: Part 1 February 13, 2015
It is all over the news - the Oregon Governor is resigning. Everybody is wringing their hands. "This is the weirdest thing we have ever seen," they are saying. This has been brewing since the beginning of the year. Local news reporters continued to uncover strange goings on with the good Guv.
Now we have this huge controversy here in Oregon, a national scandal and the consequences will be severe. And who stands at the center of all of the weirdness and scandal swirling around? Why it is the so-called, "First Lady." The Governor had been calling her his fiance - not sure what he is calling her now. I'm calling her a Narcissist. I'm not sure she is one. I am not credentialed to make such a call. But I am experienced and there is a lot unfolding in this story that sure looks familiar to me.
A prominent man's career comes tumbling down - one who has been well respected by many for a number of years. A political scandal unfolds - one with dubious, political, civil, criminal and personal ramifications. Every one is asking - what all was this fiance into? One thing everyone understands is that it was the "relationship" with this woman that brought him down. And where is she?
Oh, she is not around. The "First Lady" is not even in the country as the Guv stands before the cameras and tries to defend what is left of him - and them. The above vid is a little dramatic piece but it is short and worth watching.
I am not going to go down the list of what NPD is all about. That is easily Googled or just take a stroll through this blogsite and click on links. What really needs to happen is for the local media to grab ahold of this angle and pursue it. It is not often that this level of Narcissism plays out in front of this large of an audience. This could be a real learning opportunity for many - that is, if I am right. Let me just mention a few points.
Narcissists are not always up front about the damage they do. They most often are quite covert. But you will most certainly hear the roar when the time comes. Yes I am going to state that there is an explanation for all of this craziness playing out before us. And God only knows what that governor is enduring in his personal life right now - for that would surely tell the tale. A Narcissist leaves clues as they go about their dirty work. It is up to those closest to them to be able to decipher them. And very few of us can do that. Many of those closest to her would have to search their memories and remember the many odd things that may have been said and done.
There will be criminal investigations and ethics investigators. It is the reporters (like the ones who broke these stories) that can follow up on the Narcissist angle if they so choose. It is a matter of piecing this story together with the smaller details in order to uncover if what I claim is true. And if so, it will become clearer why the poor governor may never have had a chance. Let me tell you, once a predatory Narcissist locks onto you ... you won't see it coming. There is a lot of Narcissism floating around all through government and society. That is plenty clear to those of us who know what it is about. Others should know.
Guys - investigate her backstory. How did she meet the Governor? Delve further into her past. Interview that former boyfriend at more length. What went down with that botched pot growing operation up in Washington? What about this marriage to this ... who was it, a Nigerian? Really? That right there sounds like a heckuva story. Where does her trail lead from there? Narcissists are gypsies - they move around a lot. They don't have many close friends. Where has she been? Where are her friends - in Sweden or Germany or wherever she is now? Narcissists are like Chameleons. They re-invent their entire personalities as they move from place to place - always searching for new hunting grounds. The stealth Narcissists like to strike when the iron is hot then get the hell outta Dodge. They like to hide behind other, newer people and observe their damage from afar - as they plead complete innocence.
Alright Oregonian, Willamette Week and whoever else is out there, here is your opportunity to add a whole other dimension to this saga. Gather all your facts together. Consult with the most knowledgable mental health professional around here who knows NPD. Not any old shrink will do. You need one who truly knows these Cluster B Personality Disorders. You might be surprised at what you discover.
What was it that old boyfriend of hers said - something to the effect that ... she is not who she appears to be.
Now this
http://cnsnews.com/news/article/melanie-hunter/george-will-if-narcissism-were-oil-president-would-be-saudi-arabia
Cylvia Hayes Part 2 February 18, 2015
Oh, she is not around. The "First Lady" is not even in the country as the Guv stands before the cameras and tries to defend what is left of him - and them. The above vid is a little dramatic piece but it is short and worth watching.
I am not going to go down the list of what NPD is all about. That is easily Googled or just take a stroll through this blogsite and click on links. What really needs to happen is for the local media to grab ahold of this angle and pursue it. It is not often that this level of Narcissism plays out in front of this large of an audience. This could be a real learning opportunity for many - that is, if I am right. Let me just mention a few points.
Narcissists are not always up front about the damage they do. They most often are quite covert. But you will most certainly hear the roar when the time comes. Yes I am going to state that there is an explanation for all of this craziness playing out before us. And God only knows what that governor is enduring in his personal life right now - for that would surely tell the tale. A Narcissist leaves clues as they go about their dirty work. It is up to those closest to them to be able to decipher them. And very few of us can do that. Many of those closest to her would have to search their memories and remember the many odd things that may have been said and done.
There will be criminal investigations and ethics investigators. It is the reporters (like the ones who broke these stories) that can follow up on the Narcissist angle if they so choose. It is a matter of piecing this story together with the smaller details in order to uncover if what I claim is true. And if so, it will become clearer why the poor governor may never have had a chance. Let me tell you, once a predatory Narcissist locks onto you ... you won't see it coming. There is a lot of Narcissism floating around all through government and society. That is plenty clear to those of us who know what it is about. Others should know.
Guys - investigate her backstory. How did she meet the Governor? Delve further into her past. Interview that former boyfriend at more length. What went down with that botched pot growing operation up in Washington? What about this marriage to this ... who was it, a Nigerian? Really? That right there sounds like a heckuva story. Where does her trail lead from there? Narcissists are gypsies - they move around a lot. They don't have many close friends. Where has she been? Where are her friends - in Sweden or Germany or wherever she is now? Narcissists are like Chameleons. They re-invent their entire personalities as they move from place to place - always searching for new hunting grounds. The stealth Narcissists like to strike when the iron is hot then get the hell outta Dodge. They like to hide behind other, newer people and observe their damage from afar - as they plead complete innocence.
Alright Oregonian, Willamette Week and whoever else is out there, here is your opportunity to add a whole other dimension to this saga. Gather all your facts together. Consult with the most knowledgable mental health professional around here who knows NPD. Not any old shrink will do. You need one who truly knows these Cluster B Personality Disorders. You might be surprised at what you discover.
What was it that old boyfriend of hers said - something to the effect that ... she is not who she appears to be.
Narcissists are not always up front about the damage they do. They most often are quite covert. But you will most certainly hear the roar when the time comes. Yes I am going to state that there is an explanation for all of this craziness playing out before us. And God only knows what that governor is enduring in his personal life right now - for that would surely tell the tale. A Narcissist leaves clues as they go about their dirty work. It is up to those closest to them to be able to decipher them. And very few of us can do that. Many of those closest to her would have to search their memories and remember the many odd things that may have been said and done.
There will be criminal investigations and ethics investigators. It is the reporters (like the ones who broke these stories) that can follow up on the Narcissist angle if they so choose. It is a matter of piecing this story together with the smaller details in order to uncover if what I claim is true. And if so, it will become clearer why the poor governor may never have had a chance. Let me tell you, once a predatory Narcissist locks onto you ... you won't see it coming. There is a lot of Narcissism floating around all through government and society. That is plenty clear to those of us who know what it is about. Others should know.
Guys - investigate her backstory. How did she meet the Governor? Delve further into her past. Interview that former boyfriend at more length. What went down with that botched pot growing operation up in Washington? What about this marriage to this ... who was it, a Nigerian? Really? That right there sounds like a heckuva story. Where does her trail lead from there? Narcissists are gypsies - they move around a lot. They don't have many close friends. Where has she been? Where are her friends - in Sweden or Germany or wherever she is now? Narcissists are like Chameleons. They re-invent their entire personalities as they move from place to place - always searching for new hunting grounds. The stealth Narcissists like to strike when the iron is hot then get the hell outta Dodge. They like to hide behind other, newer people and observe their damage from afar - as they plead complete innocence.
Alright Oregonian, Willamette Week and whoever else is out there, here is your opportunity to add a whole other dimension to this saga. Gather all your facts together. Consult with the most knowledgable mental health professional around here who knows NPD. Not any old shrink will do. You need one who truly knows these Cluster B Personality Disorders. You might be surprised at what you discover.
What was it that old boyfriend of hers said - something to the effect that ... she is not who she appears to be.
Now this
http://cnsnews.com/news/article/melanie-hunter/george-will-if-narcissism-were-oil-president-would-be-saudi-arabia
Cylvia Hayes Part 2 February 18, 2015
I get a kick out of all the comments wondering why the Guv
didn’t download his “fiancé” right out of his life. I am making my case that
the Guv was more than likely under the spell of a Narcissist. This is no black
magic. They are out there – many of them – many have worked their way into
higher places and the damage they are doing is incalculable.
The boys at Willamette Week are doing their job. They are
digging into her back story. Keep digging fellas. If I am right, there is plenty
more to be found. The emails are good. They give me clues that strengthen my
position as to what I say she is.
Narcissists are strange in that they often contradict
themselves. They say one thing and do another. They will say or do the direct
opposite – sometimes in the very next sentence. This falls into my “Theory of
Opposites.” This is not uncommon. Narcissists are silver-tongued devils. They
can have you believing anything. They are THAT good. But it is the explaining
of how they do that, which is the hard part. Ask the Guv.
My guess is that, everything she has done throughout her
life, there has been a man involved. She has bounced from man to man to man
with other men in the middle. Did I mention that Narcissists have no moral
compass? Oh, and I should probably say that you might want to seek out women in
her past as well. Just sayin’.
They are opportunists. Many of them find their way into
politics. So goes her winding path, through, illegal marriage, failed pot
farms, shoddy real estate deals, world travels and deceiving old men, Cylvia
found her way into politics. Perhaps she decided this would be a good field to
mine. Where is she now, by the way?
The emails are quite telling. Find some more. Notice how she
constantly refers to “me” and “I” …. What about “us?” I see she does offer to include John in one
of her book deals. Inside their heads, the Narcissist lives in a magical world.
They exist in the center of their own little kingdom. Be it their family, work,
friends or maybe even the State Capitol and beyond. In their magical thinking,
they feel they are capable of great conquests and recognition. The method of
achieving this is unimportant as long as they know within their own mind – that
it all will surely come to pass.
For most rank and file Narcissists, that is about as far as
it goes. Their, “would be greatness” and all the damage that accompanies that
is usually confined to those closest to them. Most who have been damaged do not
want to share any of that stuff with the outside world for many reasons. Those
that do, often end up vilified themselves … like me. Interesting how many do
not want to be interviewed by the reporters. Oh, they have their reasons –
plenty of them. It is the ones who are not talking who have the most interesting,
titillating details of the story.
But, other times the Narcissists’ exploits end up in the
public record for all to see. Consider all of those perp walks. Then we have
those congressmen. I mean what congressman would show off his wiener for the
entire world to see and then have the gall to run for office, as if to say, “
What people – did I do something wrong?” Oh they can be quite clueless at
times. Oh and there is a reason for this. Lets just say that – inside every
Narcissist is a damaged little child. What is Cylvia’s story on this? I’m sure
someone has heard it.
Within the emails we see the writings of a very self
absorbed, entitled person. Does it not
appear as if the “first lady” might be more of a puppet master, pulling the
strings of the powerful governor? He
sure seems to be going along with every thing!
It doesn’t matter what anyone else says – she is going to just keep
pushing along. She has a plan that stretches out to 2018. By the way, I should
mention that many Narcissists do not seem to have much of a grasp of the
passage of time. They seem to think that everything will just continue on and
they do not have to be concerned about such things as aging or mortality. Isn’t
that strange?
Much of this I am saying cannot be found in the DSM IV (the
mental health bible). It takes a lot of digging by those who are motivated to
do so. Some of those emails had to have had the poor Guv squirming in his seat.
When we read these, it is quite obvious that her world is concerned with
nothing more than enriching her own self. As far as the Guv, the rest of Oregon
or anything else – none of that matters.
Narcissists can be very blunt in their speech – unusually
so. They get away with saying things the rest of us would not say in a group.
They are often able to pass themselves off as being somehow, more enlightened
than others. Cult leaders do this very well. But we can see that despite the
governor’s apparent trance, others can see trouble brewing and are attempting
damage control, but alas …
I have been informed that the mass media is reluctant to dig
into this kind of psychological stuff that is so hard for people to understand.
I understand that. And that is one of the big reasons why Narcissists are able
to get away with so much. They operate right under our radars as they circulate
all around us. Obviously I don’t write this for recognition – or revenue. I
just do this to help get the word out. The subject is important and we should
all know more about it. But keep digging boys. I am sure there is a more
exciting and intriguing story to be found. Dig back further.
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Check the archives to the right for many more pages >
Friday, October 10, 2014
Friday, January 24, 2014
Welcome to Killer N: Ted Bundy
Ted Bundy was one of the worst serial killer Ns. Jan. 24, 1989 was his execution in Fla. Now is his 25th. Anniversary. Here is my article from 10 yrs. ago:
Feel free to SHARE or leave a comment. Read the rest of the blog by clicking HOME below:
OK. Ten years have gone by and due to recent events in my life I find myself back in the world of the Ns. Here is the writing of a Pschopathic killer, Christian Michael Longo, in his own hand. If you can magnify - you can read. It has become faded and my old eyes aren't what they were back then either. This has not been published before. So, for those who are curious here is one page of many.
This is a piece of fiction I wrote some years ago in attempt to get into the heads of these twisted, murdering freaks and try to learn how they think. A daunting proposition indeed. One needs to keep a close eye on that abyss. Here I tried to re-create his final days of freedom based on the writings of Ann Rule and others. Click below:
http://www.lit.org/view/12902
NOTE: It is now 2015 and I am sad to report the death of Ann Rule, personal friend of Bundy who went on to become a prolific crime writer. RIP
Friday, December 20, 2013
Murdered: Mary Jane Longo
Take a look at this pic: She Is Missing ... again. Her family will not be celebrating the holidays this year. This is an anniversary of the night her and all of her children's lives were snuffed out by a murdering N in 2001. Although this is a time to celebrate Xmas and ... Birthdays - there are some things that should never be forgotten. Watch this vid and take the time to read my story - it is a long one. http://www.katu.com/news/Words-of-a-Killer-Christian-Longo-writes-about-his-dead-family-165576656.html
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| Mary Jane Longo |
Do Narcissists ever come to a time when they finally face up to the nasty things they do? I explored this in the story I wrote those years ago. Some regard me as some kind of a lunatic as I press on about this Dis-order. Take the time to educate yourself a little bit and then tell me if I am off the mark.
I have never released pages of his writings that I have been holding for 10 years. He sang a different tune back then. In my article I attempt to go into his head and a dark and murky place it is. It is a place you want to get away from as quick as you can! At the end of my story I say that I will write more. I have not done that. I don't know what I will do. Click the link below for the full article:
http://www.lit.org/view/23536Feel free to SHARE or leave a comment. Read the rest of the blog by clicking HOME below:
OK. Ten years have gone by and due to recent events in my life I find myself back in the world of the Ns. Here is the writing of a Pschopathic killer, Christian Michael Longo, in his own hand. If you can magnify - you can read. It has become faded and my old eyes aren't what they were back then either. This has not been published before. So, for those who are curious here is one page of many.
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